Final Week of Self Esteem Program- Help for abused women

Today we finished the “Healed Without Scars” self esteem program and what a change in lives.

”By faith, you must capture a vision of yourself as released from the place where you have been anchored in your emotions, a vision of yourself healed  without scars from the wounds of life, a vision of yourself fulfilling your purpose and living in God’s provision” David G. Evans.

That message has been received by the ladies. There is a peace and a new hope in their mannerisms.  One of the ladies expressed that she feels like a true child of God and sees herself worthy to receive His favor.  Hope is all about wanting something better in the future, but if an abuser is continually telling you that you don’t matter and that you don’t deserve a bright future, you begin to believe it. Freedom comes when the light of God’s truth is shone into that dark place and by faith you begin to see a vision of yourself whole in Christ.

Self Esteem Program- Help for abused women

“Working at JRC is like God sits me down in front of a stage and lets me see what He’s doing” that is what one of our volunteers  said. We all find satisfaction in watching JRC participants’ blossom as they gain new life skills and self-confidence. Beth has been at treat to watch. She doesn’t seem like the same lady that was here just a few weeks ago. I understand there is a long way to go, but to watch it happen before your eyes is awesome.

Self Esteem Program- Help for abused women

She is back and looking good. The first thing she did today was give me a hug. She said that she felt love here. She said she was seeing things differently. Even though her boyfriend didn’t cherish her, she was seeing that God cherished her. And even though she messed up, He would still cherish her forever. What a break through. She told me that she prayed to God and that she was at peace.

Self Esteem Program- Help for abused women

Beth didn’t seem too happy week. She is still with her boyfriend who doesn’t like it that she is coming here. But, Beth is still here. She said that this was her favorite time of the week. She loves the class and would come back no matter what. We are all hoping that we see her next week. We don’t want to see her lose ground. We feel that she does want to be self sufficient.

Self Esteem Program- Help for abused women

Beth is slowly coming out of her shell. She smiled and even laughed today at one of the silly jokes someone shared. The other ladies are including her in the group and she likes it. I am glad that she is in this class about emotional healing. I am beginning to see a change in her self-esteem. She is starting to wear nicer clothes and she has tied her hair back so we can see her pretty face. I believe that God is doing an inside work and we’re seeing the results.

Self Esteem Program-Help for abused women

Today we started the “Healed Without Scars” book again. This book is a great book and has touched many of our clients. Beth, the lady that we featured in the postcard mailing did come back to us. She walked into group the beginning of the year. She is a very quite lady who sits in the back. Sometimes I make eye contact and I can see the hurt in her eyes.  It will take time I know from experience, but God is patient with us so I can be patient with her and be there when she is ready to share.

“How did a nice girl like me get into a mess like this?” That is what Joan was thinking as she walked into the office of JRC.” Joan was raised in religious home with parents who insisted that she go to church on Sundays and attended religious school. Joan said she was a good girl who did all the right things and obeyed all the rules. Until one day she met some kids that were the opposite of her. Something inside of her clicked with them.  And before she knew it she was drinking and partying with her new friends and nothing else mattered.

Fast forward the years and now she was living with a guy who didn’t care about her, a child who was relying on her and a family who disowned her. She had nowhere to go and was trapped.

Today, after the program with JRC, Joan is a different person. She is confident and self sufficient. Her world has changed with the help of JRC. She is now working on her college degree and has been restored to her family. How did they change happen? Because of her commitment to improving herself and the empowerment she received from JRC.

Dress for Success

Check out our class from yesterday………. Instructor Rhonda was showing women how important professional image is in the work place.

Amazing Class Healed Without Scars Class at Joshua Resource Center

Bredna, one of our previous graduates, came by today to let us know just how much her life has changed and how well she is now. When I asked her what she gained the most by attending JRC, she said, “I got my self-esteem back through the Healed Without Scars class and the Boundaries class, and my faith in God grew. I’ll always remember what I learned and I use it everyday. I was accepted here. I fit in here. ”

Brenda has enrolled in Pellissippi and wants to become a RN. She has a new home and she is radiant.

Again, thank you for your faithfulness in helping our women. Kathy Kagley

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